How to teach a child who has a very low attention span?

Q. Hello, my son's attention span is very short. He is a C average student in the 6th grade and often has difficulty finishing his school work. I was wondering did any one have this problem with their child and what were some ways I can do as a parent to help teach him how to focus. I refuse to give him medication for there are so many side effects I dont want to harm my child. Please help.

A. We struggled with this with my daughter who has ADHD, ODD and dyslexia, and we were not keen in giving her medication either, but we agreed with her consent to give it a try, but I would only give it to her through the school term, and would not give it to her through school holidays.

But we found having a good routine helped her, along with giving her one instruction at a time, when we wanted her to focus on the task at hand, we also turned the t.v off or any other distraction off, when doing homework. Often she'd shuffle her feet or sit on her hands when concentrating, but we'd let it go, as she said it helped her concentrate, and as an adult she still does this.

Thankfully she was not disruptive child, but she did fidget, wriggle and chat when in classroom. When she was 15 she asked if she could stop taking the Ritalin, we agreed but if she started to get into trouble for talking or fidgeting in the classroom then she'd have to go back on it.

Tips that can help;
Routines really do help, especially when getting them ready for school, bed and homework

Have set area for him to do his homework, with good lighting, comfortable chair, plenty of room for text books etc, have pens pencils and paper handy too, and away from distractions e.g tv

Have clear set rules of behaviour and the consequences for breaking rules, and follow through with consequences for misbehavior or rule breaking.

Be fair and consistent at all times, many kids with ADHD/ADD are confused when parents are not consistent in behaviour or are disorganized themselves, but tell their child off for being disorganized.

Give one instruction at a time, and break task into small manageable chunks

Praise for good behaviour or completing a task however small it maybe

Rewards & incentives to help enforce good behaviour, and if you have promised a reward follow through with it.

Pick you arguments, there are times you just need to walk away (I learnt this the hard way, my daughter was/is the queen of goading)

Time out, have a set area for time out, preferably not their bedroom and not the lounge room where they can play with their toys or watch tv. My daughter would sit in a chair in the kitchen, away from the tv etc, which would make her think about why she was there.

Play time, as you know kids with ADD/ADHD are very active and need to be allowed time to run around, ride their bike, play in the back yard etc. And doing this before homework, can actually help in focusing on their home work.

Daily task chart, write a list of set chores he needs to do each day, e.g make bed, tidy room, help with dishes, put rubbish out etc, and if he does them, offer a reward for the end of the week, such as going to the pool, park, cinema etc.

Don't be afraid to ask for help, when you feel a bit over whelmed,

Self esteem, to help build his self esteem find and encourage him to participate in his favourite activities, and it also help with focusing to, especially if he is into team sports, swimming etc.

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I need pink and brown bedding for teens that are kinda cheap?

Q. my daughter is redoing her bedroom as a christmas present and found one very cute comforter that got terrible reviews so is now looking for another but is not having any luck. Preferably in stores but i will look at online.

A. See if you like any of these:
http://www2.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6E.aspx?DeptID=59474&CatID=60551&GrpTyp=ENS&ItemID=1639f98&attrtype=&attrvalue=&CMID=59474|59488&Fltr=&Srt=&QL=F&IND=42&cmVirtualCat=&CmCatId=59474|59488|60551
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=6043547
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=10890413
http://www.target.com/Xhilaration-Floral-Comforter-Set-Brown/dp/B001NHUOKK/qid=1247674177/ref=br_1_12/185-7700703-0023904?ie=UTF8&node=14122141&search-alias=&frombrowse=1&pricerange=&index=tgt-mf-mv&field-browse=14122141&rank=salesrank&rh=&page=1
http://www.nextag.com/NO-JO-RED-CALLIOPE-574536041/prices-html
http://www.beyond-bedding.com/pink-brown-polka-dot-kids-childrens-girl-twin-size-kids-bedding-set.html?productid=pink-brown-polka-dot-kids-childrens-girl-twin-size-kids-bedding-set&channelid=NEXTA
http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/185-7700703-0023904?asin=B001VIR5JY&AFID=Nextag_DF&LNM=More_Categories|Home_%20_Garden|B001VIR5JY&CPNG=home&ref=tgt_adv_XSN10001
http://www.beyond-bedding.com/animal-cheetah-pink-girl-full-queen-teen-bedding-set.html?productid=animal-cheetah-pink-girl-full-queen-teen-bedding-set&channelid=NEXTA
http://www2.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6E.aspx?DeptID=59474&CatID=60551&GrpTyp=ENS&ItemID=1428c10&attrtype=&attrvalue=&CMID=59474|59488&Fltr=&Srt=&QL=F&IND=29&cmVirtualCat=&CmCatId=59474|59488|60551
http://www.johnlewis.com/230466330/Product.aspx?source=22564
I like the surf floral from Walmart best.

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Ideas for bedroom redecorating?

Q. I'm going to be redoing my bedroom soon, and I need some ideas. I'm a 13 year old girl, so hope that helps some!
I'm going to be redoing my bedroom soon, and I need some ideas. I'm a 13 year old girl, i love blue and brown and i LOVE music. so hope that helps some!

A. Start by choosing bedding that you like. Take a color from it or chose a coordinating color for the walls. If the bedding has a theme (like tropical) decorate with those types of accessories.I could do a better search if I knew what size bed you have. For instance if your bed is full or queen there are probably more options than if we are looking for just twin. Here are some sites where you can browse for bedding...
http://www.target.com/b/ref=in_se_pagelist/190-5344060-7299147?ie=UTF8&node=369033011&pricerange=&index=tgt-mf-mv&field-browse=369033011&rank=pmrank&viewID=leaf&field-pricebin=&store=&rh=&page=1&fromBrowse=1

http://www.domestications.com/Dept/Bedding/10000/10800

http://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/X5.aspx?DeptID=59474&CatID=60551&attrtype=&attrvalue=&FromBanners=Y&cmAMS_C=C8&cmAMS_T=X3&CmCatId=59474|59488|60551

http://www1.macys.com/catalog/index.ognc?CategoryID=20270&PageID=87061385797929&kw=Kids%27%20Bedding

http://www.annaslinens.com/category/14/1/kids-teen-bedding.html

http://www.lakeside.com/catalog.asp?N=36+11&Ne=1

http://www.seventhavenue.com/Bed-and-Bath/Bedding/Quilts-and-Comforters/index.cat

http://www.overstock.com/Home-Garden/Comforter-Sets/2/subcat.html

http://www.beyond-bedding.com/teen-bedding.html

http://store.delias.com/browse.do;jsessionid=5B1A60DC20A2DAB5B25B72B46F71FB88.worker3?categoryKey=roomwares&topnavTrack=roomwares&incmpid=TopNavRoom

Threre is a turquoise and brown one on this site but it's not your typical blue and brown...
http://www.wakeupfrankie.com/Categories/Top+of+the+Bed/Duvets+Comforters/394/

These are blue and brown...
http://www.beddingsets.com/Lawrence-Home-Fashions-Breeze-Comforter-Series-LAW2547.html

http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=10802889

http://www.domestications.com/Products/Bed+in+a+Bag+reg+Sets/City+Circle+Bed+in+a+Bag+/10000/10108/F16208x/Nao/15/R/16208E

I really like this one....
http://www5.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6E.aspx?DeptID=59474&CatID=59514&GrpTyp=ENS&ItemID=157cf08&attrtype=&attrvalue=&CMID=59474%7c59483%7c59514&Fltr=&Srt=&QL=F&IND=1&cmVirtualCat=&CmCatId=59474|59483|59514

http://www.overstock.com/Home-Garden/Plaza-Stripe-3-piece-Comforter-Set/3211314/product.html

http://www.overstock.com/Home-Garden/Sedona-4-piece-Comforter-Set/3487862/product.html

http://www.sears.com/shc/s/p_10153_12605_096C6272000B?vName=For+the+Home&cName=Bedding&sName=Comforters+%26+Sets

http://www.sears.com/shc/s/p_10153_12605_096CS129000B?vName=For+the+Home&cName=Bedding&sName=Comforters+%26+Sets

Love this one!...
http://www.overstock.com/Home-Garden/Enchantment-4-piece-Full-size-Comforter-Set/3863043/product.html

This one's green and brown but it's pretty...
http://www5.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6E.aspx?DeptID=59474&CatID=59514&GrpTyp=ENS&ItemID=1404b92&attrtype=&attrvalue=&CMID=59474%7c59483%7c59514&Fltr=&Srt=&QL=F&IND=69&cmVirtualCat=&CmCatId=59474|59483|59514

http://www.seventhavenue.com/catalog/product_popup.jsp?productId=36588

I chose this one because you said you love music...
http://www.target.com/Home-Pixilated-Guitar-Comforter-Set/dp/B001LVXUPY/qid=1240261812/ref=br_1_1/190-5344060-7299147?ie=UTF8&node=643244011&frombrowse=1&rh=&page=1

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Is there a suite in Vegas that holds 5-10 comfortably?

Q. I'm going to Vegas with 5-10 girlfriends. We are on the search for a reasonable suite that will hold all of us comfortably. Preferably on the strip. Does anyone have any suggestions?

A. Definite problems...but possible solutions.

Yes, the hotels do have limits to how many people can "sleep" in a room...so, if you're trying to "squeeze" more than that into any rooms...you can't tell them at check-in..."we have 10 girls..please bring us 20 towels and 16 more pillows...okay?!?!?

What you CAN DO...is one of two other options...book more than one room (two, maybe three)...OR pay for a LARGER suite with two rooms/bedrooms and a large living room area...below are what I've done for family/friends before...and worked well...

Nearly all the SUITES change from having one or two beds...into having ONE KING ...but then have a sofa...so you can have some sleep in the King bed, request a rollaway bed, someone sleep on the couch (Usually one or two to a rollaway Max, and only one on a couch...most couches don't pull out/fold out. After you've checked in, housekeeping usually won't charge per night...in advance, reservations clerks are taught to add a per night charge..so sssshhhh early on.

*In "some" cases...you may find a suite with two queen beds...but VERY RARE...and you won't find one too close to a second for sure.

Better idea...regarding TWO "regular rooms"...but 'CONNECTING'' rooms...one with a king bed, the other with two queens are usually how they are set up...idea being one for parents the other for the kids...but in your case: King bed room with at least one rollaway and the other room with two queens...so...reasonable to get 8 with two per bed that way!!!

Depending on your budget...another option...specifically I know they have this at the MGM Grand (booked it many times in the past)...you can book a suite at the end of the hallway..about 1200 sq ft...has one King bed bedroom on each end and a HUGE living room, dining room table/chairs...and a bar/serving area (commonly used for "in-suite" parties...and plenty or room for at least two rollaways without objections from housekeeping!!! (they stand up on their sides during the day....Oh, and the wrap-around couch (if they still have that) can handle two people too...SO ...THIS CAN HANDLE 10 PEOPLE..."IF" you *spend that much money *can find it available when you come to town *would rather spend that much money to "crowd a huge suite" instead of booking 2-3 rooms instead....probably about the same money both ways...but the big suite does give you a party room, and on higher floors...an awesome view!!!

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