My boyfriend wants us to be more adventurous during sex but he wants me to come up with the ideas! HELP?

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Crazy_Lil_

My boyfriend want us to try more adventurous things during sex but he wants me to come up with the ideas because he wants to please me but I have never tryed anything like that before and I don't know where to start? can anyone help me with some ideas we can try? by the way we are 18.

Answer
I think he wants you to take control.
. Buy some nipple clips, rope and/ or padded handcuffs, feathers, oil(massage),a vibrator, cock ring, blindfold, ball gag, high heels, paddle, leather bustier, anything else that you can think of.Use them any way you want. typical would be, meet him at the door when he comes home from work. Tell him he is late, he is a bad boy, take off his clothes and get down and kiss your feet. If he complains, use the paddle. make him crawl into the bedroom if he doesn't crawl fast enough use the paddle, oh hell, just use the paddle because you want to, tie him to the bed, hands to the headboard, feet spread to the foot board, use the clips, blindfold, if he gets to noisy ,ball gag. tickle with the feather, drop hot wax on his stomach and nipples. You are in charge, do anything you want
before you start, tell him you have a surprise for him when he gets home. he is to do what ever you say when he gets home. Tell him that he can stop at any time. set up a signal, A toy cell phone works. tell him to push a button and make it beep.
the ultimate goal here is to make it tough but enjoyable, he must get off, but usually it is at his speed. the goal here is to determine when YOU want him to get off, and that is a long time after you start. bring him close but don't let him go over the top. if you make a mistake, remember he should recover in 10 to 15 minutes. during that time you could sit on his face and get youself off. good luck.

Suggestions for bedroom colour(s) to match furniture etc...?

Brennie

Main bedroom: Consists of oak flooring, dark leather kingsize bed with large square stitched leather headboard and two dark rosewood chest of drawers. The bed with furniture takes up alot of the floor space.
Bedding, curtains/blinds need to be changed as well so I have basically a blank canvas.
I would like something dramatic instead of a white or cream but need help....can anybody suggest some good colour combinations?????

Answer
Browns, tans, blues and greens would look good, I think. First, find the comforter that you want to use and choose the paint color from it. Here are some I hope you like:

http://www.ajmoss.com/ajmoss/davenport-bedding/
http://www.home-decorating-co.com/waterford-belvoir-gold-bedding.html
http://www.home-decorating-co.com/croscill-colburn-bedding.html
Paint the walls a very light shade of mocha and use wooden blinds that match your flooring.
http://www.selectblinds.com/woodblinds/signature-wood-blinds.html
Some pictures might help you too:
http://www.caseinteriordesign.com/media/images/portfolio/goldenbear/brown_bedroom.png
http://www.houseofoak.com/images/bedrooms/lasalle-bedroom.jpg
http://www.thefurniture.com/store/images/kathy_ireland/pacific/pacific_SL_large.jpg
One red wall?
http://z.about.com/d/interiordec/1/0/l/n/1/brownredbed.jpg
http://www.thefurniture.com/store/images/Liberty/Bedrooms/LF-450-BR-SET.jpg
One blue wall?
http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/cm/goodhousekeeping/images/Bedroom-Decor-Gallery-26-fb-64607284.jpg
Good luck and hope this helped!

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